Single is more than a relationship status... ?

Being a SINGLE women in her 20 "something"has become more then just a relationship status. It has become a life style. Is it because we make it that way? Or is it because we don't know anything different? I have been single for so long I could not even tell you what a date is. I have no idea what a relationship is, never had one last longer then 4 months tops. That is a record for me. Most average time a relationship last is about 2 months, before it ends.

Single the label, does it mean you will always be single? For years there has been "Men" walking away from me, later wanting to come back. Do we carry around a sign on our chest that says the revolving door is always open? Maybe that should have been my last tattoo.

I have dated every type of guy out there. That bad boys that break your heart. The good guys, the ones where you have more "balls" then they do. There may never be an between kinda of guy, but if there is then I have dated him.

My Favorite type I've dated is the ones that don't want you, well RIGHT NOW, but on one else can have you. They feel like they have a claim on you. There has been a few that have pulled that one on me. Despite all the guys I have come across. There is a huge part of me that wonders if its more me than them sometimes.

I find myself wondering when I start talking to someone, if we end up together... Will I be Happy? Will I not get bored? (and that's in the bedroom), Will I not run with my stilettos in my hands as fast as I can in the opposite direction? Will I want this to work or will I just tell myself that?

As much as I tell myself, like all single women do, that I want to settle down, do I really make it a point not to? If I'm standing at a cross roads and have two paths to choose, do I always pick the path that keeps me single? Do I answer e-mails and text messages when I probably shouldn't? Probably...

So this blog is about the crazy things a Single Girls goes through, because being single is more than a relationship status...